Powerful Strategies to Make Your Marriage Sizzle -- and Transform You Into the Woman Your Husband Will Want to Marry All Over Again
by Bob Grant, L.P.C., "The Relationship Doctor"
If you're like most wives, you're probably tired of trying to turn your spouse into a better husband .....
The fact that you're tired tells me you're ready for your marriage to improve -- and your being tired is also essential in order for you to seize your power to change your marriage into the wonderful, fulfilling one you've always envisioned.
.....tired of trying to fix the problems in your marriage ...
..... tired of reading self-help books
..... tired of listening to advice from countless friends
..... and tired of maybe even seeking the help of therapists
and getting little or no results.
The Power to Direct the Course of Your Marriage is in Your Hands
By virtue of simply being your husband's wife -- the woman he
chose to marry -- you have at your disposal the power to get inside his head, gain access to his heart and
become totally irresistible to him. That's a little-known secret that most wives don't know. Getting your husband to worship the ground you walk on is so much easier than you might imagine.
Whether your husband admits to it or not, he
wants you to gain access to his heart, discover his desires, needs, secrets and fears ? without him having to tell you to do so. But once you do discover that
secret passageway, he'll be completely captivated and be rendered powerless by you. He won't even know what hit him!
When you learn how to use this power properly, your husband can't help but
fall hopelessly in love with you and want to marry you all over again;
become increasingly more attentive to you, and want to do everything he can to please you and make you happy;
want to listen to you when you "just want to talk";
become as romantic and passionate as you'd like him to be;
be emotionally dependent on you -- and less likely to seek the attention of another woman; and
want to become a better husband and a better man because of you.
In the next 5 minutes, as you read this article in its entirety, you will discover ways to use your power that you've never learned elsewhere before. You'll finally realize the virtually effortless way to become irresistible to your husband, influence him dramatically -- whether he wants to be influenced or not -- transform him into your ideal husband, and make your marriage the happy and blissful one you've always wanted.
How Diana Seduced Her Husband with Words
and Made Him a Virtual Slave to Her Wishes
A client (whom I will call Diana to protect her privacy) came to consult with me last year. She had been married to her husband, Brad, for 5 years -- and she had become frustrated that her marriage was ?stuck.? She feared that things between Brad and her were never going to get better, and that her marriage would continue to erode.
Diana had a very successful job in the corporate world. Because of her effective communications skills in her professional life, she used the same professional and polite way of speaking to her husband, thinking it would be effective. In addition, Diana had been raised to believe that both spouses in a marriage are completely equal.
The result? A boring marriage that lacked any spark of passion -- except when they fought.
I asked Diana to consider the idea that what her husband really desired was not a wife who's his equal, but his complement. She took my advice and began to speak to him in a way that made him want to listen to her (see page 32 of
What Husbands Can't Resist). She also stopped competing with him -- but instead treated him in ways that captivated his heart.
Several months ago, Diana mentioned to Brad that she was tired of working, and that she wanted to stay home and take care of the children and him. Because the strategies I taught her had enabled her to weave herself into her husband's heart and make him emotionally dependent on her (see page 81), poor Brad never stood a chance. He was powerless to deny Diana what she desired. He didn't quite know how he would find a better-paying job to replace their dual income -- and he didn't even know if he could -- but he couldn't bear the thought of disappointing Diana.
Diana had learned how to seduce him with her words, discovered a brand new way of looking at him and responding to his advances (see page 39) that now, Brad was virtually a slave to her wishes. He wanted to please her at all costs.
It took 4 months, but Brad finally found a job that paid him enough to allow his wife to be a stay-at-home mom. Even though Brad knew Diana had gotten her way, he had been perfectly willing and happy to give her what she wanted.
Want to Build a Better Husband? I Can Show You How.My name is Bob Grant. I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship coach with
more than 20 years of successful practice. I'm also the author of the popular books,
How Can I Get Him Back
and, How To Be The Woman Men Adore and Never Want To Leave.
People call me "The Relationship Doctor" because I have the prescription for finding love, keeping passion alive, and reigniting relationships that have lost their spark.
In my practice, I find that it is usually the wives -- not the husbands -- who take an active role in improving their marriage. When married couples seek my counseling advice, 99% of the time it was the wife's idea.
Husbands generally don't do things unless they absolutely have to. They'll often deny that there's anything wrong with their marriage in the first place.
So what's a wife like YOU to do if it's only you who are willing to work on your marriage -- and your husband doesn't particularly care to cooperate?
I'm here to tell you that you CAN create the changes necessary to improve your marriage -- with or without your husband's cooperation, . As I always tell my clients, "If just one spouse in the marriage makes changes, those changes cannot help but affect the other spouse."
This brings us to the challenge most wives face when trying to make changes in their marriage. They usually think the changes that need to be made are in their husbands, not themselves. In fact, the common denominator I've seen in most wives trying to improve their marriage is this:
She wishes she could change her husband -- and make him a better man.
Wives seldom realize that when they become a better wife, they cause their husband to want to be a better husband and a better man.
The person who can influence a husband the most is his wife.
Then maybe their marriage would become happier and more fulfilling.
But exactly how do you become a better wife?
Many marital problems persist because wives do NOT have the right concept of how to become a better wife. Being a better wife entails much more than being accommodating to your husband when it comes to sex ... more than looking pretty ... more than cooking good meals, keeping a house in order and laundering his clothes.
If you're finding it hard to believe you can actually make amazing things happen in your marriage, let me explain a little bit more.
Becoming a better wife is as easy as learning a few powerful strategies, making a slight attitude adjustment as far as your marriage is concerned, discovering a more effective way to behave during conflicts, and knowing the ideal treatment of your husband so that you'll get the best of him.
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The Unconscious Phenomenon That Gives You the Power to Create a Wonderful Marriage and Make Your Husband a Better Manhe unconscious mind plays a vital role in why a man chooses a particular woman to be his mate. Without going into psychological intricacies, suffice it to say that the reason your husband picked you to be his wife is intimately connected to issues, experiences and perceptions he developed at a younger age. The reason he chose you -- and not some other woman -- is something that is deeply embedded in his subconscious (see pages 16-17 of What Husbands Can't Resist). That's why it is NOT as easy as it might seem for your husband to fall out of love with you .
Having said that, you can now begin to understand why you, as his wife, have the power to shape and alter him the way you please. Your husband is more ready to yield to YOU than anyone else. You have the power to be the most wonderful person in his life -- one who could make him the best man he could be. But you also have the power to be the most dangerous person who could cause him more pain than anyone can, deprive him of pleasure, expose his weaknesses and make his life miserable.
With this kind of influence, the only question left to answer is:
Can you handle this much power over your husband?
your answer is yes, read on and I'll show you exactly how to harness that power
and use it to dramatically improve your marriage and transform your husband into
the ideal husband he could be.
How Corinne Made Her Husband Dedicated to
Giving Her Everything She Wants
Corinne and her husband, Roger, came to me for counseling not too long ago. Roger told me that Corinne just didn?t understand him. He had told her many times he only required 2 things for him to be happy in their marriage: The first one was that he didn't like to argue with her, and the second was that he wanted to have more sex. Those things, to him, were simple enough -- and no different from what other men
want from their wives.
Corinne felt hurt and offended because all Roger cared about was for his needs to be met. "What about my needs?" she lamented. For years, she felt shortchanged by Roger's seeming lack of concern for her -- and whenever she talked to him about it, he refused to discuss it. That made Corinne feel even more lonely and alienated.
When I first told Corinne about the power a wife can wield by first creating emotionally dependency in her husband before requesting something of him, she was appalled by the suggestion. The very idea seemed manipulative and childish to her. That was until I pointed out that her husband actually WANTED to be emotionally dependent on her.
She followed my advice and stopped arguing with Roger, which was hard for her in the beginning, but she quickly got the hang of it. It wasn't until she stopped arguing with him that she realized that arguing was an exercise in futility -- and that there was a more effective strategy to get what she wanted (see page 13). A strategy that did not involve nagging, coercion, crying or begging. Additionally, Corinne finally realized what I had been telling her all along -- that a husband's need for sex goes beyond just physical gratification, and that sex actually meant something to Roger's soul and his wholeness. She never knew until then how much Roger depended on her to make him feel complete. When she got into the practice of rewarding his attentiveness with her approval, he began to count on her smile, her soft words and her responsiveness to his sexual advances.
As Roger's emotional dependence on Corinne grew, he became increasingly devoted and attentive to her needs -- and did everything in his power to make sure he did NOT offend his beloved wife in any way. He began to put Corinne on a virtual pedestal and practically worshipped the ground she walked on. After a couple of months, whenever Corinne as much as threw one disapproving glance in Roger's direction, he would cower and apologize immediately for whatever he said or did.
The last time I spoke to Corinne, her marriage to Roger had become the happy and fulfilling one she had envisioned for herself. Her last words to me were, "My only difficulty in my marriage now is not knowing what to do with all the newfound power I have over Roger!"
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WARNING: Use These Powerful Strategies Only as Directed. Over-Use Could Make You Too Irresistible to Your Husband.
I'm sure that by now, you've already guessed that husbands are really submissive, tamable and moldable creatures -- underneath the facade of the aggressive hunters, invaders and conquerors that they like to portray themselves as.
Because I'm not only a therapist, counselor and relationship consultant -- but also a husband myself -- I can attest to the fact that a husband's power in a marriage pales by comparison to the mind-boggling power of his wife!
Quite frankly, it is ridiculously easy for a wife to tame and mold her husband and make him submit to her wishes -- if she knows the secret to getting inside his head and gaining access to his heart.
To this end, I have come up with a blueprint for making your marriage sizzle and transforming yourself into the woman your husband will want to marry all over again. I created this blueprint from the feedback of hundreds of my real-life female clients -- and from time-tested strategies and techniques I've developed over the years. When properly implemented, these powerful strategies are most difficult for your husband to resist! I've compiled the strategies into . . .
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Earlier on, I said that whether your husband admits to it or not, he WANTS you to gain access to his heart, discover his desires, needs and secrets but he doesn't want to have to tell you to do so. That's because your husband is ill-equipped to tell you what he wants without appearing like an insensitive, selfish, uncaring bastard to you. Neither does he know the psychological reasons why he thinks, speaks or behaves the way he does -- let alone teach you how to behave towards him!
Therefore, I've taken it upon myself to speak on behalf of all husbands everywhere. I've written the e-book that your husband would write just for you, if he knew how. This e-book is guaranteed to make your marriage more blissful -- and dramatically improve the relationship between your husband and you. The title of this e-book is What Husbands Can't Resist -- Powerful Insights That Will Make Him Want to Marry You All Over Again.
Deep in your heart, isn't this what you (and every wife) wishes -- to be the center of your husband's attention, to always be captivating to him, and to have him constantly validate your desirability and beauty? And the other wish I know you and every wife has is to see your husband reach his full potential.
That's because more often than not, wives see in their husbands more potential for greatness than the husbands see in themselves. I'm sure you've heard the saying, "A man marries a woman, hoping she will never change -- and a woman marries a man, hoping he will change ... for the better."
Well, be careful what you hope for -- because you're about to get it!
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Best of all, you'll turn your husband into a man who's dedicated to making you happy. What could be better than that?
Please don't confuse this e-book with all the other how-to books on improving your marriage, which dispense the same old run-of-the-mill advice. The powerful strategies in this e-book are largely counter-intuitive, and may even be contrary to everything else you've learned about marriage and relationships. But I guarantee that they work -- as evidenced by hundreds of my female clients who have created marital bliss and built successful marriages for themselves.
Here's a sneak peek at some of the priceless nuggets contained in the book:
The Art of Getting Your Husband to Do the Things You Want Him to Do -- When you master this art, you'll not only get him to obey your wishes (whether it's putting his dirty socks in the laundry basket or getting a better-paying job) and he'd be willing and happy to do all that you ask of him. (see page 13)
reignite one of your husband's biggest turn-ons ? Most women seldom realize this, and therefore miss out on an opportunity to capture their husband?s attention (see pages 10-11)
The absolute best way to make a dramatic improvement in your marriage instantly -- this is the recipe for joy in any marriage. When your __________ exceeds what you _____________, you will experience joy -- guaranteed. (see page 56)
The crucial ingredient that is often missing in communications between husbands and wives ? How to apply this ingredient into any marital conflict, dispute or disagreement to arrive at a fair resolution that is mutually beneficial (see page 76)
Why submission to your husband (i.e., selective yielding of power to him versus surrendering complete control to him) is one of the most powerful strategies for making your husband more emotionally dependent on you, more attentive to your needs, and dedicated to your happiness (see page 81)
How to identify your husband's primary fear (yes, all husbands have one) -- When you identify this fear that drives a large part of his behavior -- and you're able to handle it appropriately, you'll literally own his heart. This is the key to making your husband closer and more loyal to you in ways you can?t even imagine -- and in his eyes, there will be no other woman more perfect for him than you. (see page 21)
The one thing you can do in a split second to make your husband feel like he?s married the woman of his dreams (see page 29)
What SEX really means to a husband (yes, it does go beyond just physical gratification) ? and how sex can make a man cherish, adore and protect you the way a man takes care of a prized object of desire (see pages 36-37)
The highest compliment you can give your husband ? and no, it?s not praising his physical appearance, which only works on women, not men (see page 44)
Instead of saying, ?I need to talk,? here are two sentences you can say to him that are guaranteed to get you his undivided attention for a few minutes. These sentences will NOT get his guard up or scare him off in fear you?re going to talk endlessly and overwhelm him with words or emotions (see page 63)
MYTH: Once a man is married, he is incapable of romance. How you can rekindle the fire of romance in your marriage by cranking up your feminine mystique -- and causing your husband to become a more romantic guy than you ever thought possible! (see page 54)
The seemingly harmless things wives do that make their husbands feel stripped of their manhood and, therefore, more tempted to run to the arms of another woman (see page 12)
How to make your husband feel powerful so that he?ll always want to be with you (see page 29)
Why learning the proper way to handle conflict with your husband is the ultimate secret to giving him
his greatest need ? and thus making him want to give you all that you need (see page
What is the most sensitive organ on a man during sex? No, it?s not that obvious organ. Neither is it his skin. (That?s only true for women ? but not for men.) There is another organ that is far more susceptible to arousal during lovemaking. When you discover the right way to arouse this, his desire for you will skyrocket ? and he'll want to please you even more. (see page 43)
Why you should NEVER give your husband advice ? unless he begs you to (see page 47)
How to make your husband willing to listen to you and try practically anything you suggest (see page 32)
Why your husband?s seemingly indifferent regard for your problems or your pain does NOT mean he doesn?t care about you. The secret behind this bizarre behavior of husbands that wives often misunderstand (see page 49)
The most pervasive killer of romance in a marriage ? If you and your husband keep doing this common activity, you can bet the romance you crave will always be lacking (see page 57)
How to enable your husband to experience the kind of contentment that he so desperately craves, and help him to be more fulfilled (see page 46)
The 15 words you can say to your husband
when you?re lonely and need reassurance -- These words will get you the positive and supportive response you want from him every time (see page 9)
Why does it hurt your husband when you lose pride in your appearance? You?ll never believe the answer to this -- and it's not what you think! (see page 11)
A simple exercise that motivates your husband to do things that set your heart on fire and make him a more romantic husband in your eyes. Husbands love this exercise because they won?t have to read your mind or resort to guesswork to know exactly how to please you (see pages 59-60)
The word-for-word speech you can give your husband when you need him to just listen to you talk about your feelings and not have him try to fix your problem. When you give this speech enough times, you train him to be a more empathetic person without making him feel worthless for not being able to fix things for you. (see page 52)
What is the real reason your husband married you? The reason is often quite different from the reasons he thinks he married you. It's not just because you're pretty, or you're his type, or you have a wonderful personality. Discover the unconscious reason why -- of all the women in the world -- he chose to marry you, and how you can use this discovery to create an enduring marriage. (see pages 16-17)
our husband?s moods, or occasional lack of affection, rarely indicate that he doesn?t love you anymore ? or that his love for you has diminished. If your husband?s love does not SEEM as intense as it used to be when you were dating, here's why. (see page 10)
Irrational things a wife does that makes her husband stop trying to please her altogether. Are you doing these things? (see page 8)
To most husbands, the thought of failing at marriage is excruciatingly painful. One husband expressed this fear to me as follows: ?Why even try and make your
wife happy, when nothing seems to work??
The No. 1 mistake wives make during lovemaking that rob their husbands of libido, and make them feel inadequate, or even impotent ? and the delicious gift of arousal you can give him during sex that will make him more attentive to you even outside the bedroom (see page 44)
Why it seems odd to your husband that you actually need reassurance of his love for you (see page 7)
How becoming your husband's "cheerleader" can melt the cold and guarded part of his heart -- This is also
one of the best things you could do to keep his passion for you from waning. (see page 23)
Why excessive reliance on your feminine assets (such as nurturance, sensitivity, and being in touch with your feelings) ? makes you misjudge your husband's actions and fault him for things he doesn't deserve (see page 8)
Why you don?t need to be perfect -- just authentic and true to yourself -- in order to help your husband become a better man, overcome things from his past, and outgrow some of his childhood coping skills (see page 20)
Why your physical appearance ? and your ability to take care of yourself ? has a lot to do with your husband's level of self-esteem (see pages 27-29)
Why losing weight, wearing more attractive clothing, and putting on more make-up is rarely the kind of physical improvement your husband really needs to see in you to regard you highly (see page 27)
How something as seemingly harmless as the tone of your voice can lead to the gradual erosion of your marriage ? whether you realize it or not (see page 30)
Your husband needs your __________ to the same extent that you need his love. Why it's absolutely critical that you treat your husband with ____________ ? even though you think he has yet to earn it (see page 32)
How to guide your husband?s sexual advances so that you?ll get the emotional intimacy and pleasure that you want from lovemaking ? while making your husband feel that he?s in control (see page 39)
The easiest and most amicable way to avoid never-ending debates with your husband about how to make decisions or resolve issues in your household
(see page 74)
Why you should NEVER give in to your husband?s sexual advances when he?s behaving miserably or in an ugly manner. Do this at your own risk! (see page 40)
How to get your husband to realize how powerful it is when he considers your opinions and incorporates them into his decision-making ? without denigrating his ability as a man or making him feel weak or untrustworthy (see page 66)
How a simple shift in your attitude towards your husband?s ability to provide for the family can help your husband advance in his career (see page 69)
For Wives with Children: How the emotional bond between your husband and you can be eroded when you become overly attached to your child (or children) ? the secret fear your husband will never tell you about (see pages 70-71)
How the unwillingness of wives to yield to their husbands inadvertently becomes a block to intimacy (see page 58)
...and much more!
This is Not an Ordinary E-Book -- It's a "Virtual Marriage Counselor"
Over the years, I've wanted to teach these powerful strategies to more than just the couples who are able to travel to my office in Georgia for marriage counseling.
So I wrote the 115-page e-book, What Husbands Can't Resist so that wives all over the
world can learn to understand their husbands and develop successful marriages ? no matter where they live! Unlike other books that just simply dish out general principles and concepts on how to have a happy marriage, this book was designed to give you the virtual experience of consulting with me face-to-face in my office. I take you with me on a virtual journey behind the counselor's door -- starting with the "Welcome to My Office" getting-acquainted visit -- all the way through the easy-to-follow series of simulated counseling dialogues.
In the chapter-by-chapter "virtual counseling sessions," I've anticipated every concern, problem or question you would probably ask -- based on the typical concerns, problems and questions brought to me by hundreds of female clients over
more than 20 years. On page after page, I provide you with powerful insights that will dramatically change your marital circumstances and transform the way you use your power in your marriage.
I guarantee that you'll emerge from this reading experience as a changed person who will never look at your marriage the same way again. And because of the subtle, but powerful, changes you'll make in yourself as a result of reading this book, you will cause your husband to WANT to become the best husband he can be. And the best part is that he'll think it was his idea!
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How to Mesmerize Your Husband into Submission
Donna came to me for counseling, and complained that her husband, Ted, keeps ignoring her when she tries to talk to him. It turns out that Donna had the habit of carrying on one-sided conversations -- with her telling Ted how she feels, and Ted dismissing her with a cursory "Uh-huh" or ignoring her altogether.
I taught Donna a skill (see page 48 of What Husbands Can't Resist) which literally mesmerized her husband.
When Ted came in at the following counseling session, he said to me,
"I can't remember the last time I felt so powerless around my wife. I mean, if she had wanted a new dress right there and then, or a fancy trip, or whatever, I'm afraid I would have said yes, because I wouldn't have been able to stop myself."
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Turn Your Marriage Around Before It's Too Late
What causes a marriage to go downhill?
I can tell you right now that it's never because of just one big disagreement, conflict or fight -- it's never just one huge avalanche or storm, but rather the slow, insidious drip-drip-drip of not understanding your husband day after day, and night after night. It's that constant drip (which wives often ignore) that erodes the very foundation of a marriage, just like the continuous drip of a leaky faucet in the dead of night.
Is it any wonder that many a wife is caught by surprise when her marriage suddenly ends in divorce even though she thought there was nothing seriously wrong with her marriage? Or when a wife finds out her husband is cheating on her -- even though she thought her marriage was going pretty well?
Again, it's that drip-drip-drip that often goes unnoticed -- until it overflows and turns into a flood that seems to have "come out of nowhere."
My point is this: Although it's not always a wife's fault that a marriage deteriorates or ends in divorce, it is the wife who has the power to turn the marriage around for the better -- with or without the cooperation of her husband. And she can do this by going back to the fundamentals -- that is, understanding her husband. Understanding his desires and needs, his fears and his secrets.
Let me ask you a question: Do you know what your husband's PRIMARY desire is?
No, it's not sex. And neither is it money or a beautiful wife -- even though all these things do please him.
No matter how many times I've asked this question, no married woman has ever been able to answer it correctly. And this, I believe, is one of the MAIN causes of the steady deterioration of most marriages. It's the insidious drip-drip-drip that goes unnoticed.
A wife always tends to give her husband what she thinks he needs or desires -- which is quite different from what he really needs or desires. As a result, the husbands needs are seldom fulfilled, or are only fulfilled sporadically or by accident.
Before you start suspecting me of being a male chauvinist who thinks that it's a wife's sole purpose to selflessly serve her husbands needs, I want you to listen closely. Once you know what your husband's primary desire is, and you make it your priority to give it to him (and this is easier to do than you think), you set into motion a cascade of events that will create a happy marriage that fulfills your needs. I guarantee it.
On page 29 of What Husbands Can't Resist, I reveal what your husband's primary desire is -- and how you can use it awaken dormant talents, skills and faculties in your husband that you never even knew he had.
Just this one single insight can make a dramatic impact on your marriage -- and have an incredible effect on your husband. Now, imagine what spectacular results you'll get when you use the dozens of insights and strategies sprinkled throughout the e-book's pages!
Remember -- the key to a happy marriage is understanding your husband. It's not about playing mind games, using sneaky manipulation tactics or fake persuasion tricks like some magazine articles, books and resources might suggest.
What Husbands Can't Resist is overflowing with information that enables you to get inside your husband's head and gain access to his heart. It gives you everything you need to turn your marriage around -- and avoid the unknown perils that could lead you down the road to divorce.
Most of the information that appears in my e-book appears nowhere else -- both online or offline. This is the only resource of its kind on earth. The strategies and insights have taken
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However, this e-book is not for everyone.
It's not for the kind of woman who's afraid of trying anything new -- nor is it for the woman who prefers to get marriage advice
only from quick magazine articles, or from friends and relatives who give advice that might seem to make sense but actually has no basis in reality, or does not produce results.
This e-book is designed for the wife who has a vision of how wonderful her marriage could be, and has the GUTS to seize her power and use counter-intuitive strategies to transform herself into the woman her husband would want to marry all over again.
If this describes you, then I urge you to get your hands on What Husbands Can't Resist. Try the blueprint I reveal in the e-book -- and put it to the test. Take as long as 60 days to implement the strategies, if you want, but I can assure you that you'll begin seeing results in your husband, your marriage, and most of all, yourself -- in as little as a few days, a few hours, or in the case of some strategies, in an instant!
Rest assured that if the blueprint doesn't do for you what I promised --
or if you're not 100% satisfied for any reason, you can simply send me an e-mail within 60 days of your purchase, and I'll refund your entire purchase price -- no questions asked. You owe it to yourself to see how amazing this blueprint works, when followed for a few days or weeks.
Always know that once you know the secret to getting inside your husband's head and gaining access to his heart, the rewards are simply spectacular!
Wishing you the marriage of your dreams,
Bob Grant, L.P.C.
"The Relationship Doctor"
Does your husband do things that baffle you? Maybe they could be simple things like throwing his dirty socks on the floor (when the hamper is only a few feet away),
or refusing to clean off his plate and put it in the dishwasher. Other things he does could be more frustrating -- like why he insists on keeping his dead-end, low-paying job. Some of his actions might even cause exasperation. Why does he get upset over some of the trivial things you do, and then turn around and exhibit tremendous patience over things that other people would be overwhelmed by?
Whatever your husband's personality may be, or whatever kind of childhood or life experiences he may have had, there's a secret to unraveling the mysteries of his heart, mind and soul -- and it's in my e-book, What Husbands Can't Resist.
P.P.S. Did you know that having a happy marriage is one of the best things you can do for your health? Conversely, if you have a problematic marriage, it could wreak havoc on your health. Consider the following story of one of my female clients: ↓ ↓ ↓
How Erica Learned to Inspire, Motivate and Mold Her Husband's Behavior and Attitudes
A client of mine named Erica came to see me several months ago. She was experiencing frequent panic attacks to the extent that she couldn't even drive herself anywhere, due to her fears. When we discussed her marriage, she told me she was confident that her husband, Doug, loved her -- but all he seemed to care about was for her to
"just get better already." She longed for his support because she suffered from embarrassment, shame and hopelessness over her mental condition.
What Erica didn't realize is how deeply Doug WANTED to help her -- but he just didn't know how. He was simply doing what men do
- telling her to get better because that's what men usually do to uplift each other -- giving the unspoken encouragement that "You're strong and I know you can beat this." But Erica saw Doug's typical male behavior as a sign of impatience, unsupportiveness and unlovingness.
Acting on the advice that I reveal in page 13 of What Husbands Can't Resist, Erica began to "invest" in her husband. She learned ways to inspire, motivate and mold her husband's behavior and attitudes -- and she was astonished at how patient he soon became. The most surprising thing to her was how the simple strategy of keeping her house clean (see page 41) made Doug immediately more attentive to her!
Within a few weeks' time, Doug became less concerned about her
"getting better" and more concerned about her as his wife -- her mental condition notwithstanding. Ironically, almost as soon as Doug began showing Erica that he accepted, supported and loved her, the panic attacks disappeared.
Whether you're trying to improve your marriage for the sake of your happiness or your health, it's one of the best investments you could ever make in your life! That's why it makes even more sense to own
What Husbands Can't Resist today.